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  • Corporate Virtual Wellness Ideas

    Corporate Virtual Wellness Ideas

    How Our Team Tripled Its Engagement—No Office Required

    Hey friend 👋,

    Have you ever looked around your (virtual) office and realized—wow, we’re all here, but are we… really here? That happened to me not long ago. I was running from one video call to another, seeing more “Sorry, you’re muted” face palms than real smiles, and felt my own energy (and my team’s!) quietly draining away. I realized we were getting things DONE, but the spark? The joy? That part had almost vanished.

    The Moment I Hit Pause

    One afternoon, after another batch of Zoom fatigue, I thought: “There’s got to be a better way.” So I decided to run a small experiment—what if “wellness” was just part of our remote routine? I’ll be honest, I didn’t know if anyone would join in. But what happened truly surprised me: People showed up. They laughed. They moved. They even started sharing their own ideas!

    Let me break down what’s actually worked for us (including some unexpected moments of hilarity):

    1. Team Stretch Breaks: Tiny Moves, Big Smiles 🧘

    Our company was already promoting a step app. So instead of counting steps, we started scheduling spontaneous “stretch breaks” during long project days. Someone would ping the group with a quick “Stretch time!” message. For five minutes, we’d all stand up and follow a set of silly or simple stretches. These included shoulder rolls, neck turns, or even a goofy dance move thrown in. No gear, no prep—just a shared moment to get the kinks out and laugh together. It became a favorite ritual and a much-anticipated pause that kept our energy (and postures) in much better shape!

    2. Small Rituals, Big Impact

    Enter “Mindfulness Mondays.” We’d start the week with a 5-minute guided meditation. Sometimes it was led by a team member. Other times, we used just a Headspace link. Even the skeptics admitted it made Mondays less… Monday. If you’re curious how to get started, check out Headspace or Insight Timer for free sessions.

    3. Sharing = Connecting (and Laughing)

    Anybody that knows me knows I love to laugh. The sillier the better. I even have a Dad jokes calendar that I share with my team. I set up a channel for sharing anything health-related—lunch pics, silly desk stretches, even weird wellness podcasts. Turns out, sharing “what’s actually working” became the most talked about part of our weeks! The whole team started swapping ideas (and way too many salad photos).

    4. Make It Optional (and Gently Encouraging)

    Here’s the magic: all of our wellness ideas came with zero pressure. I don’t know about you, but I don’t like to be forced to do anything. So my motto was show up if you want, skip it if you need to. Oddly enough, I found people were eager to join in. It felt like a “no judgment, all welcome” invitation.

    Your Challenge This Week

    Pick one idea up there (or get creative!) and give it a shot—either with your team or just for yourself. Maybe invite a colleague to a “step break” after lunch. Set up a “Mindfulness Monday” invite, or share your favorite go-to snack or podcast in your Slack. See what sparks something—maybe you’ll get a few laughs (or new lunchtime buddies) in the process.

    If you try it, I genuinely want to hear how it goes! Just reply to this email, comment below, or tag me in your best virtual wellness moment this week. Let’s keep the energy (and real-life connection) alive—even if it’s through a camera lens.

    Cheering you on, Tim

    P.S. Got any wellness hacks that worked for your remote team? Drop them in the comments so others can try them too!

  • Doomscrolling

    Doomscrolling

    Breaking Free From the Doomscroll: How to Reclaim Your Mental Space

    Hey friend! 👋
    Last night, I picked up my phone to check the weather—just a quick glance, I told myself. Two hours later, I was still scrolling. I was reading news articles and debates raging over the recent Sydney Sweeney/American Eagle ad controversy. The avalanche of reactions only fueled my sense of anxiety. My head buzzed, my chest felt tight, and somehow I was both overstimulated and completely empty. Sound familiar?

    That’s when I realized I had a serious doomscrolling problem. And based on conversations with friends, family, and honestly, most humans I know, I’m definitely not alone.

    Scrolling felt like control—but it was quietly ruining my life.

    Did you know? The average person checks their phone 352 times a day!! No wonder we feel scattered and anxious all the time.

    What I Learned About This Modern Addiction 🧠

    Here’s the thing about doomscrolling that took me way too long to figure out: It’s not really about staying informed. It’s about avoiding something else.

    For me, I realized I was using the endless scroll. It was a way to avoid the uncomfortable feeling of being alone with my thoughts.
    Bored? Scroll. Anxious? Scroll. Procrastinating on work? Definitely scroll.

    The problem with doomscrolling is it amplifies negative emotions instead of easing them. It’s like scratching a mosquito bite—you think it’ll bring relief, but it only makes the itch worse and risks infection.

    Four Strategies That Actually Break the Cycle

    1. The “Phone Parking” Method
     Instead of trying to use willpower (which fails), I started physically removing the temptation. I bought a charging station for my kitchen and “park” my phone there when I get home.
    The key is making it inconvenient enough that you have to be intentional about picking it up. Those extra 10 steps give your brain time to ask: “Do I actually need this, or am I just bored?”

    2. Replace the Habit, Don’t Delete It
     Going cold turkey never worked for me. I identified what I was actually looking for when I reached for my phone. Usually, it was a mental break or stimulation. I found healthier alternatives.
    Now, when I feel the urge to scroll, I have a list of 5-minute alternatives. I can make tea or empty the garbage cans in the washrooms. I might text a friend something specific (not just “hey”). Alternatively, I can step outside and take three deep breaths.

    3. The “News Curfew” Rule
     I stopped consuming news after 8 PM. Not because I don’t care about the world, but because late-night anxiety spirals don’t actually help anyone.
    I get my news from two trusted sources, once in the morning, for a maximum of 15 minutes. That’s it. Everything else is just feeding the anxiety machine.

    4. Create “Friction” for Social Apps
     A hack my son taught me was to remove social media apps from my phone’s home screen. I turned off all notifications except for calls and texts. Now, if I want to check Instagram or X, I have to search for the app.
    That tiny bit of friction has cut my usage by about half. Most of the time, by the time I find the app, I realize I don’t actually want to use it.

    Your Challenge This Week 📱

    Pick ONE of these strategies and commit to trying it for just three days. Not forever—just three days. I recommend starting with the phone parking method since it’s the easiest to implement and has the biggest immediate impact.

    Pay attention to what happens when you reach for your phone and it’s not there.
    What were you feeling? What were you trying to avoid or distract yourself from?

    I’d love to hear what works for you. Hit reply and share your story—or your struggle. Sometimes our best solutions come from the comments section!

    If you trip up, that’s okay. Every scroll is a chance to notice, pause, and choose again.

    You’ve got this, Tim

    P.S. Last nights spiral I mentioned? It started because I was avoiding writing a difficult email for work. The irony? I spent two hours consuming content about other people’s problems instead of spending 15 minutes solving my own. Sometimes the thing we’re avoiding is so much smaller than the mental energy we spend avoiding it.